I Snooped in his Apartment
I snooped around in my boyfriend's apartment and found a picture of him and another girl in bed. I asked him if he was unfaithful to me and he said he had never cheated on me. Since I couldn't tell him I snooped, I didn't mention the picture. How do I approach the question again since I didn't have a permission to look at the pictures?
My guess is that you snooped because you don't trust him. Now you know why you don't trust him, why are you still with him? Why do you need confirmation from him, or have him break up with you? Do whatever you need to to raise you self-esteem. You know you deserve better than this. Dr. Ginger.
Dr. Ginger Gabriel, Ph.D., M.F.T., is an author and speaker as well as a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist in California. With Master of Arts degrees in counseling and missions and a Ph.D. in psychology, she has traveled to Asia, the Middle East and throughout North American giving her four-to fifteen-hour relationship and counseling skill-building seminars.
Her favorite pastimes are kayaking, quilting, hiking and reading novels. She is married to Dr. Stan Gabriel. They have three children and three grandchildren.

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